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Since mid-March, public spaces and gatherings in all of Croatia have been restricted by signs, warnings, and possible fines. Croatia locked down fast and strong, and presumably as a result, the effects of the virus have not been as prevalent here as they have for many of our European neighbors.

On April 27, the Croatian government started a 3-week plan to ease restrictions. Some important changes went into effect today, including reopening some schools, allowing intercity transportation, some ambiguous language on crossing borders, and the reopening of coffee bars, cafés, and restaurants (with required distancing and hygiene measures). In anticipation, there has been a welcome rush of activity during the past couple weeks as café and restaurant owners power-wash their terraces, paint trim, wash windows, and set out tables and chairs.

According to Glas Hrvatske (“Voice of Croatia”), the Croatian coffee company Franck conducted a survey at the beginning of May and found that “the things Croatians miss the most during the lockdown…are spending time with friends and family (78%), followed by trips and travel (48%) and drinking coffee in cafes (44%).” For anyone who has spent some time here, this comes as no surprise. Café culture is an essential part of Croatian life. 

And so today is a big day in Croatia. More and more neighbors, friends, and families have been out walking and enjoying healthy time in the fresh air. Music is in the air once again. Energy is returning to the streets. We’re not out of the woods yet, but at least we can feel hopeful that we will return to the relaxed, outdoor Mediterranean lifestyle we love. 

Any time is a good time to reach out to your family and friends just to say, “I’m thinking about you.” But especially now, in light of the coronavirus and the social distancing we’ve all been getting used to, a quick email or postcard to your loved ones, or a letter with a family photo, can help alleviate some of that isolation and take their minds off current events.

For those (like us) who were not lucky enough to grow up speaking more than a few words of Croatian, writing to distant family members can be a bit daunting. Many people in Croatia know English, and all children have mandatory foreign language classes as part of their school curriculum; however, you may have older relatives who only speak Croatian. Normally a neighbor or family member would be happy to help translate, but with the current social restrictions in place, you may want to say a few words they can understand in case nobody is around.

So we’ve put together a few tips and phrases to help! Don’t worry too much about accents and spelling—Croatians understand their language is difficult (many struggle with it themselves) and they will appreciate that you tried! 

The first thing to be aware of is that formal greetings are used to open and close a message, regardless of whether it is a letter or even an email. Second, the following phrases are commonly used, so don’t worry if the translation sounds a little clunky to an English speaker.


Dear ___________ [name],
Draga ___________, for a woman (for example, “Draga Ana” means “Dear Ana”)
Dragi ___________, for a man (for example, “Dragi Ivan” means “Dear Ivan”)
Draga obitelji ___________, for a family (for example, “Draga obitelji Kovačević” means “Dear Kovačević family”)

I think about you often.
Često mislim na tebe. (“tebe” refers to one person you are close to)
Često mislim na vas. (“vas” refers to a family, multiple people, or someone you are not as familiar with)

How are you?
Kako si? (to one person, informal)
Kako ste? (to two or more people, or formal)

How is the family?
Kako je cijela obitelj?

I hope you are well.
Nadam se da si dobro. (singular informal)
Nadam se da ste dobro. (singular formal)
Nadam se da ste svi dobro.
 (plural)

I am well. / We are well. 
Ja sam dobro. / Mi smo svi dobro.

I am the daughter / son of ___________ [name].
Ja sam kćerka / sin ___________.

My daughter / My son is ___________ [name].
Moja kćerka / Moj sin je ___________.

My wife / My husband is ___________ [name].
Moja žena / Moj muž je ___________.

I send greetings to you.
Šaljem ti (singular informal) / vam (plural or formal) puno pozdrava.

We send greetings to you.
Šaljemo ti (singular informal) / vam (plural or formal) puno pozdrava.

___________ [name] sends greetings to you. 
___________ te (singular informal) / vas (plural or formal) pozdravlja.

My family sends greetings to you.
Moja obitelj vas puno pozdravlja.

This picture is ___________ [name, place]. 
Na ovoj slici je ___________.

We would like to see Croatia someday.
Voljeli bismo vidjeti Hrvatsku jednog dana.

I hope to visit Croatia soon.
Nadam se da ću uskoro posjetiti Hrvatsku.

We hope to visit Croatia soon.
Nadamo se da ćemo uskoro posjetiti Hrvatsku.

I’m praying for you and the whole family.
Molim se za tebe (singular informal) / vas (plural or formal) i cijelu obitelj.

God bless and keep you.
Neka te (singular informal) / vas (plural or formal) dragi Bog čuva i blagoslovi.

Warm greetings,*
Lijep pozdrav,

Many greetings,*
Puno pozdrava,

*Croatians usually save the word “Love” for romantic relationships. “Greetings” are used for other loved ones.


If it looks like the postal address you have is incomplete, don’t worry. In many villages and smaller towns, there may be no literal street addresses. (In smaller areas, the postman knows where everybody lives anyway!) The format for a complete address is:

Luka Kovačević (addressee’s first and last name)
II Kat (floor or apartment number, if there is one)
Radnička ulica 40 (street name followed by house or building number) 
47000 Karlovac (5-digit zip code, followed by village, town, or city name) 
Croatia

You can find more detailed addressing examples at the Hrvatska pošta website.

Finally, when you send a note to Croatia, don’t expect a pen pal. Sending letters overseas can be uncomfortable in any language, and you might not hear back. But rest assured, your message will bring joy and appreciation. And chances are, when you finally return to Croatia and visit your relatives in the village, they will open a drawer and pull out a postcard or photo you sent them years before. 

It is difficult to be separated from those you love, especially now, with so much uncertainty revolving around the COVID-19 situation. So living in Croatia myself, and separated from my family in America, I’d like to share just a few personal perceptions with the hope they will help someone feel a little closer to their friends or family here in Croatia.

1 ) So far so good.

The consensus seems to be that the government is ahead of the curve and making good decisions to slow the spread of the virus. In fact the Oxford University tracker has ranked Croatia the best in the world in terms of government response in proportion to number of cases. As of this writing, our borders and non-essential businesses are locked down, with provisions for trade and a continued supply of food and necessities. The supermarkets are staying stocked, and we’re hoping the farmers’ markets can reopen soon so we can support our local family farms.

2) We have healthcare!

People seem confident in the healthcare system, and there’s a lot to be said for that. I’m regularly asked, “I’ve heard that some people in America don’t have health insurance or can’t afford healthcare—is that really true?” It’s reassuring that access to healthcare seems to be the norm here.

3) This is not our Mediterranean lifestyle.

Things definitely look different. People say we have learned a frightening lesson from our neighbor Italy. The streets are awfully quiet, and most people are staying home instead of enjoying our normal relaxed, outdoor lifestyle. When we go out, most people now wear masks, and the workers I’ve seen wear both gloves and masks. 

4) Croatians without coffee bars?

Croatia is known for its coffee culture, and coffee bars and kavanas that would normally be filled with happy voices are now empty. These places where friends meet, current events are debated, gossip is traded, and business is conducted are closed. It is difficult to so suddenly lose this important part of Croatian life.

5) A word from a loved one can go a long way.

I think isolation is even more distressing for naturally social Croatians than it may be for those used to American culture. Grandparents are separated from grandchildren, and friends from friends. Families have already been disconnected over recent years because of the economy, leaving many older people alone without their natural support system. This is a great time to strengthen your connections, even if from a distance. Wouldn’t your dear relative love a thought from faraway relatives, whether a quick email or postcard, just to say, “We’re thinking about you”? (If you need help getting started, check out our “Postcards to Croatia” post.)

6) This is a good time to pray.

This event will have a lasting negative impact on Croatia’s already-struggling economy. Over the last decade, Croatia has been suffering from an economic emigration in which hundreds of thousands have left for other countries to find jobs. Now with businesses required to close, and a very weak e-commerce framework, many people have suddenly been laid off and many businesses say they are not financially strong enough to last a month or more. In addition, tourism is a strong segment of the national economy, which will suffer if businesses can’t reopen and tourists can’t return to the coast this summer. We pray that all the businesses and workers will weather this crisis and that the coming summer will again provide enough work for the Croatian people to get through the rest of the year.

7) There are ways to keep yourself up to date.

Things here change daily, as in the rest of the world. But there are some helpful online resources to keep residents and diaspora informed. I have found these websites helpful: Koronavirus.hr is the Croatian government’s official site for information on the virus (the right side of the menu bar allows you to select Croatian or English language); Glas Hrvatske (“Voice of Croatia”) is a Croatian state radio service whose Croatian-language website also includes some English content, current audio news, and online radio programming.

We hope you and your loved ones stay safe and well, and that this time apart eventually brings us all closer together.